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rm_sunburst62 31 M
1  question
Rough Sex - 7/14/2008

I've never really had alot of rough sex other than vigorus thrusting for an extended period. This is mainly due to the fact that i am a college football player, and am capable of hurting large men on the gridiron. I really don't want to spend a night at the ER with a date. So my question is to those out there who engage in rough sex and enjoy it. What are the ins and outs of it...what do you ...

11 response(s), 14 votes
rm_pradeep4 35 M
38  questions
Cum stains - 7/14/2008

I know we all males love to see womens used panteis and get excited when we see some stains from their juices there. How do you ladies out there feel about males cum stains. I mean do women ever try to peak, smell or lick guys underwear too.... Do women ever think about our cum stains or is it just guy thing.

24 response(s), 57 votes
rm_pradeep4 35 M
38  questions
wet wipes vs baby wipes - 7/14/2008

Hi people, I was wondering if there is any diff in wet wipes and baby wipes... are they the same thing or diff... I mean if you have to use them during mastrubation, which one would all recomment... does anyone out there use these..

18 response(s), 42 votes
rm_12deep5 58 M
4  questions
FOR THE LADYS - 7/14/2008

DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE YOUR PUSSY 8 OUT OR DO YOU LIKE TO BE LONG DICK. LONG DICKING IS WHEN A GUY HITS BOTTOM OF THE PUSSY AND THE HEAD OF THE DICK PLAYS. WHIT THE MEAT DOWN THERE TIL YOU CUM.

12 response(s), 23 votes
Honeydewy 46 F
41  questions
Is the brain the most sexy part of a person? - 7/14/2008

If so, .. why are the guys flooding my mailbox with mails that do nothing for my perception of their sexiness in terms of their minds if the brain is indeed supposed to be the sexiest muscle one flexes?

Is intellectual stimulation quite ignored here on AdultFriendFinder?

I mean, .. they may spend time courting you via your blog or by mails so that you feel comfortable meeting ...


13 response(s), 17 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
Limit on taking BLINGS .. ? - 7/14/2008

Let me first apologise if this question has already been asked before ..

i am a collector of blings .. & there are many bling makers here .. & they are all so lovely ..

KUDOs to all of u who create blings ..

lately it seems like even when i pay for the blings .. they don't show up on my profile anymore .. has there ...

14 response(s), 13 votes
rm_othrwhtmeat 38 M
7  questions
unusual contact attempt - 7/14/2008

Okay, a few days ago I got a message from a woman that kind of surprised me. Since I'm not sure how to accurately convey the issue without some extensive detail going into it, I'm going to start by seriously risking a breach of proper manners and etiquette by copy and pasting the exact message.

Hello there how are you?

Nice profile and cute photo... all i can say is ...


24 response(s), 22 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
Deep throating... - 7/13/2008

Ok, , this old broad has a question. I am into trying different things, ,, love giving oral to my lover, and have almost overcome gagging when coming in my mouth.(even got to accomplishing swallowing). Might not seem like a big deal for most, but when ya gag as easy as me, ,, it is a MAJOR accomplishment. But how does one get over the gag reflex to perform deep throat. My SO has expressed a ...

16 response(s), 23 votes
rm_Bri4More 67 M
20  questions
What is it in a guy that a woman will say: I want to have him tonight? - 7/13/2008

Always been curious. What is it that draws out a women's intense desires?

9 response(s), 18 votes
wood4fire20 45 M
6  questions
Meeting and greating - 7/13/2008

We all know online dating sites are not perfect. As much fun as it is to find people online I find it much harder in real life. Not being shy or anything, just it's not as easy an environment. Where do you go in real life to look for someone to date? I know there aren't places to go to find those looking for sex, so no worries there.

9 response(s), 16 votes
strawberrykiss03 54 F
1  question
A question about fisting - 7/13/2008

So this guy I know likes to play with my pussy, he likes to try to put as many fingers into it as he can. It does drive me wild. He had his whole hand in my pussy and it felt fantastic, I came so hard I squirt. That is pretty good for me as I didn't know I could. What my question is should I be worried that he can hurt me doing this? He used lube but I have to wonder? Will I be so stretched out I ...

18 response(s), 43 votes
rm_formygirl08 53 C
1  question
Swinging - 7/13/2008

My guy and I are looking to possibly dip into the swinging waters. How would you recommend getting started? We are looking for people who are very discreet and drug and disease free. So how can we have fun in this area and protect ourselves at the same time?

9 response(s), 16 votes
rebelman4urass 50 M
1  question
are married woman more fun - 7/13/2008

I have latley been meeting alot of beutiful woman on here and have joined 6 married woman and have found I enjoy my time with married women more so then single.

16 response(s), 31 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
I tried the help feature and now I ask everybody. - 7/13/2008

What does it mean when there is a notice on your home page and main profile that reads "Profile is Pending Review"? does anybody know?

12 response(s), 14 votes
drksidr 48 M
1  question
what do you look for? - 7/13/2008

this is for the ladies. honestly ladies, what is it that you look for in men?

11 response(s), 11 votes
BBCNJMAN 50 M
6  questions
To Call or Not - 7/13/2008

It has recently come to my attention that when I don't call a couple or the wife of the couple I am giving the impression that I'm not interested. In recent weeks several people have told me that if the lady calls in the initial hook up and continue there after that if I don't take the time to call or write that I am giving off the impression I am not into her. I was alway under the idea that as ...

8 response(s), 11 votes
rm_WEEBIEnME 60 C
9  questions
BLING BLING BLING!!!! - 7/13/2008

This may sound more like a comment then a question, but here it is anyway. I really enjoy making bling.Sending it to friends or seeing others choose it to add to their collection is a pretty good feeling.After looking at other bling to add to my collection, I find myself left with this one thought....HOW in the WORLD does some of you folks out there do it?I mean, wow, some of them look like small ...

9 response(s), 9 votes
rm_los_butros 29 M
2  questions
voting pics? - 7/13/2008

when I go to 'edit pictures' and it says like '5 votes' under my pic. How can I watch who have voted and what rate did she give?

11 response(s), 19 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
toe nails - 7/12/2008

my toe nails look bad can any one give me tips beside using tee tre oil, lmao

8 response(s), 26 votes
HOTINALABAMA2 53 F
1  question
bi courious - 7/12/2008

I am 44 am bi courious but really dont know how to go about satisfying my curiosty about it, I would really like to be with another woman just find out if I would like it.

9 response(s), 22 votes
NoregretsTonight 28 M
1  question
Seeking Relationship Advice: - 7/12/2008

Hi guys and gals, I am seeing relationship advice as I"m between a rock and a hard place. So here is the back story:

Dating for 2 1/2 years, and living together for almost 2 1/2 years. I pay for rent, living, and some bills, while she pays for a majority of the bills. Her family is fantastic and the sex use to be. Lately it has gone downhill and it is few and far in between (once ...

21 response(s), 18 votes
swtcouple4fun 60 C
36  questions
I am waiting ....zzz - 7/12/2008

When a male had FMF hook up, when they cum the first round, how long should the other female need to wait to enjoy the night?

19 response(s), 20 votes
laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Of Legal Age - 7/12/2008

Online Now! Member Since: July 19, 2007 Birthdate: December 15, 1989 (18 years old)

Is it me or did this member join AdultFriendFinder when they were a 17 year old? Since they will be 19 in December 2008 that means they were on the sight for 5 months and not of legal majority age.

I have seen several profiles where the age of the member was questionable compared to member since displayed? ...

20 response(s), 24 votes
fabricator55 68 M
1  question
Pictures - 7/12/2008

Why do people post theclose up nude photos and not at least a clothed body shot? Would rather know what they look like than just the nude shots.

24 response(s), 23 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Pure romance - 7/12/2008

Hanu, my wife, attended a party a few months back. It was sort of like the old tupperware parties, except this one is a Pure Romance party. The consultant bring along various sex products. These include such things as lubes , vibrators and other stuff for having fun.

One of the products, and the reason for this post is called Coochy. It is a rash free shave cream for the nether ...

9 response(s), 16 votes
rm_matey501 70 M
1  question
A question for all about watching M/M sex. - 7/12/2008

I read a question and the responses about whether watching two men having sex was a turn on or a turn off. A large majority seem to consider it a turn off. My question is, most everyone, men and women, find watching two women together very erotic and a turn on while watching two men a turn off and I would like to know why? Is it a conditional thing, like you were brought up to think of two men ...

14 response(s), 18 votes
rm_hrdhbt2brk 53 M
6  questions
ladies you like men shaved, trimmed, or natural - 7/12/2008

I just wanted to past this question to you ladies. I love my woman shaved and started to think what woman like? I am shaved clean, and have been for a couple years now. sure would like to know what you ladies think about this subject. ...

9 response(s), 8 votes
cjok2 49 F
1  question
lubrication - 7/12/2008

Hello, just wondered if you can help?, today after a very long time of trying i managed to have anal sex - my partner is extremely big so we need to use a lub, we ended up using baby oil and i wondered if there was anything else we could use that wasnt so messy - dont get me wrong it was great fun getting the oil smothered all over me and there was no complaints from him

21 response(s), 16 votes
Blkcuple4u2Cus 41 C
13  questions
Horoscope - 7/12/2008

Which horoscope signs are more likely to be swingers? Just a questions, but curious to know. Thanks

6 response(s), 15 votes
jilo33 86 M
3  questions
What is ~~ ISO ~~~???? - 7/12/2008

What is the meaning of ISO ?????

12 response(s), 13 votes